Does Twitter and Sex Mix ??

I was presented the other day with a question about social media by a friend. The question was asked does twitter and sex mix, and I had to reply by saying I'm not sure but I'm sure it could. Many peoples relationships are being affected by using sites like Twitter and Facebook. A lot of folks in serious relationships are having problems, because there better half is online engaging in conversation wit someone who meets their dreams and needs of what a man or a women should look like. I know myself I have meet someone off of a social media website and that lead to us having sex. Twitter is the new social media power house along with FaceBook and their are a lot of freaks lurking online and waiting to take your man or women.

The real question is can you be in a healthy relationship wit someone who like to be online meeting new people? Twitter and sex is the topic I choose this topic to gain an understanding of how does on meet someone online and maintain a healthy relationship at home or can it even be possible. Relationship are in peril due to the social media empires of today. Their are many people who are finding steady conversation wit someone online who looks,taste, smells, and feel the way they think a person should feel.

Online dating is new for the forty and over generation, but for a younger generation it is common to meet people online and begin to form a relationship that might seem to be healthy.

Does Twitter and Sex mix or don't mix that is the question ? Maybe it does and the folks who are already in a serious relationship needs to figure out how to make it work together so it doesn't effect the relationship. There are a lot of insecure men and women who have a huge problem with their boyfriend and girlfriend being online and socializing with new people. I was in a relationship similar to this in the past where my ex-girlfriend would get upset, because I was always online and had a conversation with a pretty girl. Now I'm in the entertainment industry so it requires me to meet new faces and keep up with the socializing game. She had a bit of insecurity about me being online and one day it had an adverse effect on the relationship when I was lured into a friends request on a Myspace page by a half naked attractive girl.


The story went something like this I got a friends request from a girl she was real sexy you know the type just some panties on and nothing else. So, of coarse I had to accept the friends request, now was it my lusting over her body that got me in trouble or was it just that I should of never accepted the friends request in the first place? To make a long story short my girl ended up finding out about the online girl, and got really upset about it which lead to us breaking up.I personally thought it was a little silly, but she really took it to another level and we ended going are sepearte ways.

Do you think social websitelike Twitter and Facebook have a way of killing a relationship?

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Stop Tripping on VJays Dee Jays Authors Book Publishers and Radio Personalities

I had an interesting discussion with a women out of Knoxville Tn. who after yesterdays "I DO Music" seminar she seem to be a tid bit shy about leaving her press kit and bio, because the panelist stated their was a right and wrong way to approach them. One of he panelist made it clear their was a certain way to approach them when leaving music. She also stated that "she wouldn't listen to your music unless she had a relationship with you." In order for a artist to get her to listen to their music you would have to build a relationship with her. I say Fuck them and stop doing things the conventional way. Drop your music on them, introduce yourself, thank them for their time and keep it moving. You have to remember as an artist you are dealing with "Right Brained" (information and processing side of the brain) people. As an artist you operate on the left side of the brain. So, when you want to discuss music, arts, and fashion etc. they would rather talk about seminars,talk shows, book publishing, motivational speaking, and quotes of the day, and financial numbers. You as an artist have to understand both sides of the brain in order to wage war on the V-Jays, Dee Jays, and Radio Personalities, authors, and book publishers.

You have to create a Brand that they will want to follow. I want you to take stock for a minute and think back about celebrity profiling, have you ever noticed that many of these same Right Brained individuals Gawk at celebrities or the creative folks? This is because to be creative is an exceptional gift that many people don't have.

The next time, you are at a music conference or seminar don't trip on the V-Jays, Dee Jays, Authors, Book Publishers,and Radio Personalities they can kiss your ass because your a brand that is ready to do business with like minded people. When you are at a industry event just give them your material make the connection, build the relationship,get their info.,and get the hell on.

Energy what is and how does it affect you and your art or business? Their is a certain thing as energy between two people, and you have to find the group of people who have to same type of energy you do. Dealing with business minded or Right Brained people may not click with the creative energy that you are giving off. Have you ever heard of the term Six Degrees of separation? Six Degrees of separation means you are six people away from the person you need to do business with. For example, I know Barack Obama, Obama knows Lil'John, Lil John knows Kate Hudson, Kate Hudson knows 50cent and 50cent knows Joe Blow Smoke whose uncle is in charge of operations at Live Nation. He heard about you through 50 and would like to talk to you about a business opportunity.After meeting with Joe Blow Smoke you now have a six figure touring dealing to help promote your brand as a artist, Many artist know this is the opportunity you need that will change your life from being nobody to some body. Your just one person away from getting where you want with your career.

The reality to this post, is that no one person has the key to your success its a combination of your hard work, networking, and building your brand that eventually leads to your success. So, the next time you go to a music conference or seminar and you approach a Right Brained individual don't kiss their ass just shake their hand, get their contact information, and leave your flyers, cd, and business cards etc. If the one person or group of people don't connect with you properly then Fuck'em and move on to the next situation.

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